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Nothing kills a relationship faster than boredom

Nothing can kill a relationship quicker than boredom.

It’s not difficult to slip into a routine with your partner. Much like studying, working, going to the gym or even eating, sex is vital to a good relationship but it can become boring and monotonous. If that happens, you and your man will begin to look elsewhere for pleasures.

Don’t allow this to happen to your relationship!

The Bad Girls Bible will teach you everything you need to know to keep things going however, these 14 sex tricks can be a great beginning to eliminate boredom from your relationship & sex life. Here goes:

1. Learn about New Sex Positions

This is the simplest yet one of the most effective ways of keeping things fascinating. It’s the reason why I created the Sex Positions section of the Bad Girls Bible. It has pictures and detailed descriptions of more than 100 sexual positions.

If you’re looking to give your guy back-arching toe-curling and screaming orgasms that keep him sexually hooked to you, then look for them in my discreet and private newsletter. Also, you’ll be taught the 5 unsafe and “dumb” sexual sins that make him turn off and how to stay clear of these.

If you’ve not taken the lead before in bed you might feel slightly nervous about doing this. But your guy will love the experience. Believe me.

It’s best to test some of the most straightforward positions that do not require a lot of flexibility and are easy to transition to.

2. Discover His Favorite Things (And Yours too!)

Everyone has sexual fantasies. Everyone!

The problem for a lot of people is that they think that their fantasies are weird or little out there. They might not want to reveal the fantasies they have because of fear or potential embarrassment or their partner thinking they’re weird.

It is likely that your friend may be thinking the same thing!

There may be certain ideas or experiences which you are attracted but you do not are able to experience them in the real world.

3. Becoming Dominant, Exploring Your Sensitive Side

The majority of relationships have one person who is slightly dominant in bed while the other is more submissive.

But not in the traditional sense of the term. But in the sense that one partner is more eager to try out new things and change positions or even engage one another in sexual sex.

An excellent method to spice things up is to switch up your character every time you’re in bed with your man.

Therefore, if he’s normally the one that wants to change positions You should attempt to take him out and move your position instead. (make sure to try out the new sex positions, too!)
Perhaps he is the one who initiates sexual relations. You could try to be the one to cause the most trouble?
You might also start with foreplay. Try holding out until he does.

4. Pinch His Ass

This is perhaps the most bizarre sexually explicit tip you’ll ever receive from me. But it works really well.

The next time you are leaving your partner, as you lean towards him to kiss him, swiftly grab his bum. You can hold it in your hand either smack or grab it with your fingers.

Make sure it’s quick But don’t make any comments about it.

Don’t answer, if he asks why you did what you did.

Smile at him.

For your man it can be a little complicated, but it’s an indication that you like him and can be naughty too.

Note: Do not use this daily or even every week. It’s best to use it once per month to keep things flirty and fun.

5. Make use of Sex Toys

Sex toys are great. Particularly when you want to make things more exciting. There’s a sexual toys for everything. For him, for her. For his penis, your penis, for your.

Using sex toys such as cock and ball ring during foreplay is an excellent way to get each other hot and bothered before sex. They are also great in lieu of sex, and also during sexual activities as well.

But as I’ve said with all of the tips you’ve read: if you solely rely on sex toys things will inevitably start to get boring and routine.
A great way to think about sex toys is seeing them as a condiment, not the main course.

In the next few weeks, I’ll be adding an article on which sex toys work the best and on how you can make use of them.

6. Don’t Be Afraid To Shower With Him!

This simple sex tip is like pinching his sexual organs. It should be used with caution for it to remain effective.

When your husband is taking a shower, be sure to follow him a minute later. From there, you have a choice of what to do:

You could do nothing else but just wash him. It’s surprisingly sensual!
You can offer him a blowout. Try putting a towel under your knees, if you are doing this, otherwise your knees may become painful.
There is a possibility of having sex. Although, you’ll find that shampoo and water will quickly dry out your natural lubrication

7. Build anticipation

A reason why sexual encounters can be dull and boring is because there’s no anticipation in anticipation, there’s no tension before having sexual relations with your partner. It’s simple routine (for the majority of couples, it’s at least once a day or every evening).

In order to break this monotony, try building anticipation towards something he’s expecting. If you are on vacation with friends, text your lover and let him know that you miss him (and how sexually sexy your).

Let him know what you plan to do when you return. In detail…

This doesn’t have to be limited to when you’re away in vacation. You can try it right after you leave for school or work.

Caution: As with other sex-related tips, make sure to limit your use of this tip as it may become monotonous very quickly.

8. Dressing for Him

Dressing for your man is a basic’sex tips. It’s a bit similar to the last sex trick, “Building Anticipation’.

When I refer to “Dressing up for Him”, I don’t neccessarily mean dressing up in costume or wearing super-slutty clothing.

In other words, I am talking about wearing something provocative. It should make him think twice. Something that makes him think of why he likes you so very much.

This could be a skirt which is a bit shorter than the norm, a top cut low or anything that emphasizes your great points.

9. Watch Porn Together

I’m telling you! I fully understand if dislike porn and wish to stay clear of this practice completely.

There is a myth that women love porn while men do not like it. It’s not true.

I feel that this is a more precise way of describing stereotypes:

The majority of women dislike ‘conventional’ pornography.

What’s conventional pornography? Pornography which is degrading for women, and where males treat women as dirt and cum on their faces in the end.

But, if you search for it, you’ll find female focused pornography that’s different from this.

If you’re not convinced with the notion of watching porn with your guy, then please don’t feel like you have to.

10. Ask For Directions

Requesting directions when you need to get sexually satisfied with your partner, regardless of whether you’re giving him blowjob or handjob or having sex is a really smart move if you want to make rapid progress.

But don’t contact him directly.

Don’t say:
Does that sound okay?
I’m not quite sure what I’m doing However, I hope you like this.

The best way to ask the person for directions’ could be to offer him a choice or to make a suggestive statement.

Are you a man who does handjobs or blowjob guy?

I’m sure you’re the kind of guy who is a fan of playing balls in with…
You appear to be the kind of person who loves being at the top and in control…
I can tell you like doggystyle sexual sex…

For some, this can be easy, while others find it more difficult. But once you do ‘ask to be directed’ you’ll quickly discover what your man enjoys the most. He’ll be more likely to reciprocate!

11. Talk Dirty

Talking dirty to your man can be really powerful. This is why there’s an entire section of The Bad Girls Bible devoted to speaking dirty, not to mention the powerful dirty talking tutorial video I wrote to help you get up to speed fast. You can view it here.

Instead of repeating everything that has been said in the talking dirty section, seriously look it up for yourself.

If you don’t know about the advantages of talking dirty, many women love it because they can keep your guy constantly towards you and thinking of the other woman when they aren’t in the vicinity.